Mr Yu and students share the five sentences

 In my life and work, there are a few words for me are very important guiding significance, I would like to share with you hh
first sentence is a good habit of the ancient Greek words
philosopher Aristotle said. If the good is a habit, then laziness is a habit. who was born, in addition to temper will be different because of nature, other things are basically formed the day after tomorrow, is the result of family influence and education. Therefore, our words and deeds are the habit over time. some of us formed a good habit, some people form a bad habit. When 20-year-old We already have self-awareness, has the habit of beginning to understand what makes us a lifetime. So we are good from now on should become a habit, so that our good behavior taken for granted, become our second nature. Let us habitually to creative thinking, the habit of doing things to go seriously, the habit of being kind to others, habitually appreciate nature. I do a lot of habits are the gradually develop, including my attitude towards teachers and staff, views on many issues. You develop a good habit, you will look in the eyes of good people. For example, let us today to learn to smile, the sad left to yourself, brings happiness to others. Whether you are a sincere smile, or occupational, as long as you laugh, it will be beautiful and look great, will give a good impression. In Western society, many of you go Local people are smiling, even though you know it is vocational, you can still feel the smile of people are very friendly. If we are the same, maybe we give him more money he is not necessarily in the results, while important, however, the process of doing things is more important, because we are in the process of living every day, every day are not happy, is equivalent to the entire life are not happy. So while we focus on business results, because good results We will be more happy, but the process to enrich our lives.
human life must be the end result of death, we can not say that our life has no meaning. happiness is the desire for life itself, the only man in the world will laugh animals, but not the only animals that know how to joy. All the animals are happy nature, which in many small animals to run and play in fun to see it. human life must often have higher goals than survival, as human beings In addition to material life, but also must meet the spiritual life, so man must pay more than the hard work animals. In substance, we hope that this year the wages of 2,000 yuan a month, next year through their own efforts into 3000 yuan a month, After all, 2,000 yuan and 3,000 yuan to us is not the same quality of life. But in addition, we also have to make spiritual victory.
Zeng said: Mowen harvest. watering and fertilizing it is more important. because only then will grow strong crops, harvest will be better. In addition, your daily sunrise and sunset of the labor process is the best of your life experience. greet you to the beautiful sun, the earth, watching the sunset, you go home carrying a hoe, not that beautiful feeling okay? almost to the Tao, ; the realm.
so we must seek the fullness of each day. There are few world eternal, college students fall in love, every day, vowed that I will love you forever, which is actually untrue, only in the expression of an aspiration. but we are saying, because at least at that moment, we do the expression is true feelings show. the pursuit of eternal love is the dream of mankind, because people in love will always be filled. But the reality Life is not the case, statistics show that college students love the 100 pairs in the final 90 will break up, married and was also the last half will divorce. You say that love can be eternity? Therefore, the most true to say that: Today, I, at this moment is really in love with you. .
third sentence, the shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line
especially in interpersonal relations and the process of doing things difficult for us to put things right straight. We sometimes need wait, sometimes cooperative, sometimes tricky. Perhaps aircraft can fly directly between two points, but even aircraft, if in front of a big flow, but also usually only fly around the big air. We do it will encounter many difficulties and obstacles, and sometimes we do not have to endure, hard red, we can choose to bypass the difficulties, there is an obstacle to go around, maybe do things more smoothly. We think we have to think about other people talking Naju Hua better listen to it. especially in China, the more complex a society, we have to learn to think of ways to understand others, to make people think you are this person is very mature, very good, you can to do it.
fourth sentence only know how to stop people know how to speed up the higher the quality
car, open the faster. such as the Mercedes-Benz and BMW cars in this category, and their quality is reflected not only in the engine system, but also in brake system. When you drive these cars, to dare to high speed, because you know, as long as you hit the brakes, the car will be able to firmly stop, and will not roll or run to the street outside. But when we open Xiali car, we must not have been as fast and Mercedes cars, because we know that if it was running too fast, and very difficult to brake, and maybe it will hit the railing, or turned on. So, not sure stop down the people who run faster.
when I ski, the greatest experience is to stop. I just started to learn skiing does not have a coach, watching other people ski, and I'm easy, not that the slide from the top to the foot of the mountain it? So I put on my skis, he slides about to slide down, and the results I slid down the mountain from the top, actually rolled down the mountain, bounded from point fall for many. I found that I did not know how to stop, how to maintain balance. Finally, I observed how others stopped again, how slippery, and then a little bit to learn, over and over how in the snow, the slope to stop. practiced for a week, I finally learned to stop at any slope, sliding, and stop. this time I find myself skiing, and to dare to the hill at high speed from the top under the red. because I know if I want to stop, a turn will be able to stop. as long as you stop, you will not hit on the tree, hit a rock and hit people, you will not be killed. Therefore, only know how to stop people who know how to speed ahead.
the last sentence to give a kind of wisdom drawback is a boon
I once read in a book this sentence, do not understand the beginning, but in the life and work finally began to understand the significance. In life, our most foolish behavior is so persistent in their something to hold onto their things upon her, unwilling to give up. The result, you pinch and hold the things other people do not take him to share with you. did not give up for did not get, this is clear enough truth . I am here to tell you about sharing theory. When you have six apples, do not eat them all, because all six apples you eat, you eat to six apples to eat a taste that the taste of apples. If you put five of the six apples out to others to eat, although, you lose five apples, but you actually got the other five of friendship and goodwill . after you can get more, when someone is when other fruits, they will certainly share with you, you will get an orange from individual hands, the hands of that person to get a pear, you may get the last six different types of fruit, six different flavors, six different colors, six of the friendship. who must learn to use what you have to return to you something more important and rich. In between people learn to exchange and share the harvest times in six apples you eat a person to gain. That is because you gave up five earned Apple, so think about giving up is not the kind of wisdom?
So what is called Live head? life the greatest joy is through the struggle to get what we want. so flawed means that we can further perfect, there is lack of means that we can make further efforts. I watched a television in the United States, talking about the left to future generations a rich heritage with a different result, all his descendants into a drug, suicide, jail, or mental illness. Why is it so? because the rich man left to their own offspring too much money, so they do not need labor to inherit a fortune. inherit a fortune, you can buy almost anything. we all know the role of money is material in the world can buy what you need all things, but the only buy is your heart full, other people's friendship and your true love. Since these are not buy, so you more money, the more empty the mind, you tried to use the money to fill their emptiness, and finally there is no other way can only be replaced by drugs, making yourself into a fantasy world. So I say, when a person has everything, he was deprived of the living space out. If we wake up every morning, feeling their children today, what shortcomings, feel that they need to be more perfect, are they still pursuing, it is a how to be happy about ah!
[of: Mr Yu New Oriental Education & Technology Group Chairman]